4 Our Search for Fulfillment Our goals are different, but all of us are searching for fulfillment. Sometimes we search consciously and sometimes unconsciously. Many look for fulfillment or happiness in Marriage Many women think: “If I can just find the right husband, then I will be happy.” And many men think: “If I can just find the right wife, then I will be happy.” We search for fulfillment in our ideas of success: money, possessions, and freedom.